The culture encourages you to focus on the physical parts of intimacy quickly, without taking time to get to know the WHOLE person.
Science and psychology agree that sexually intimacy is soooooooo much more than “just a physical act”. We discussed how you can improve your odds to have a healthy and successful relationship, by TAKING TIME to get to know ALL PARTS of your partner: The Intellectual, Emotional, Social, Spiritual, and Financial ‘parts’.
For example, before you invest more of your time, your money and your ‘heart’, wouldn’t you like to know if they have an anger problem? Or are socially uncomfortable? Or are involved in church? Or spend beyond their means?
We all have the freedom of choice, but NOT ONE of us are free from the Consequences of our choices. It’s your decision, but we know, “NOW yells louder but LATER lasts longer!”
A great science and research book on sexual health is: Hooked, New Science on How Casual Sex is Affecting Our Children
- By Joe S. McIlhaney, Jr. MD and Freda McKissic Bush, MD